by Revs. Jason and Michael, The Marry Men Wedding Officiants
When it comes to planning your ceremony, there’s one detail that carries more emotional weight than people realize: the music. It sets the tone, sparks memories and turns moments into full-body chills. That’s why curating the perfect wedding ceremony soundtrack matters so much – it’s not just background noise, it’s the heartbeat of your day.
But where do you start? Enter The Marry Men, here with expert advice and their own top wedding song picks, to help you craft a ceremony playlist that’s deeply personal, stylishly curated and totally unforgettable (and not past their prime).
The processional: At Last
The wedding ceremony soundtrack you choose as the overture to your ceremony will frame the memories of your wedding day forever. Consider a timeless classical piece that speaks to tradition or a contemporary love song that mirrors your relationship. Whether it’s the song that was playing when you first met or a tune you both love to sing along to, personal connections will make the music even more memorable, so choose something that is going to hit all the right notes.
Going Solo?
Consider giving each key entrance its own distinct and dynamic soundtrack. A unique song can help the groom “get into the groove” and highlight his personality, while a different selection for the wedding party can add some pomp and circumstance. Finally, a bold or sentimental piece for the bride’s entrance will ensure that this breathtaking moment stands apart from all the rest. Thoughtfully curating these musical elections can create an emotional experience that will, as Madonna famously suggests, “make the people come together.”
The recessional: Signed, sealed, delivered
The music you select for your recessional doesn’t have to be a showstopper, but it should capture your excitement and add a burst of energy as the ceremony transitions into a celebration. Whether it’s a Broadway ballad, a Disney ditty or a timeless classic, make sure the lyrics are meaningful for the moment and reflect the promises you just made. Upbeat pop songs, lively classical pieces or something playful can provide a joyful chorus for the smiles, laughter and applause that will help you “shake, rattle and roll” your way down the aisle as newlyweds.
Music to make you feel my love
Many couples like to include music for other personalized moments during the ceremony. Consider a soft acoustic piece to serenade the signing of the marriage licence or a favourite melody to underscore a unity ritual or family tradition. The prelude might be serene, the processional reverent, the signing soft and reflective, and the recessional upbeat and joyous. Think of it as an emotional journey that starts from anticipation and culminates in celebration. If you’re hiring live musicians, discuss your vision with them and make sure they’re comfortable with your song choices. If you’re using recorded music, invest in quality sound equipment to ensure every note can be heard.
From the first note of the processional to the last beat of the recessional, every song you select for your wedding ceremony soundtrack should be a meaningful part of your wedding day. Let the rhythms move you up and down the aisle and let the music tell your story.
Top picks from The Marry Men
Here, The Marry Men share their favourite wedding ceremony soundtrack selections and “marry melodies” that can help turn up the volume on your vows:
- “Love Like This” by Lauren Daigle
- “Can’t Help Falling In Love” by Elvis Presley
- “Simply the Best” (cover by Billianne)
- “This Will Be (An Everlasting Love)” by Natalie Cole
- “Like the Sun” by RyanDan
There are some songs that, while beautiful, are past their prime or out of tune with the times.
Consider pushing pause on:
- “All of Me” by John Legend
- “Canon in D” by Johann Pachelbel
- “A Thousand Years” by Christina Perri
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